The Vulnerability in Humans

THE WORLD

The world is so big,  and many people realize this before others do and the people who don't realize are the ones being manipulated. There will be 8,045,311,447 people in the world by 2023 and there will be more as the years pass by, that number does seem finite but the thought process and thinking of all the people is not the same or finite. After all, we humans are the smartest species on the planet aren't we?, We are good people and we are confident that we are doing it right, we often give justification to our course of action if we really are guilty but it doesn't hide the fact that people who intend to manipulate and dominate do exist other than good people on this planet and these people find the real vulnerability in the good people.

EMOTIONAL SENTIMENT (THE PEOPLE)

Emotions and the fear of being exploited by the people, make a human being vulnerable. In a real case scenario, this is seen often in every one of us. We love our family, we have a dream, we have emotions which are not controlled by ourselves and we have all the happiness in the world from the things we do have.

THE VULNERABILITY

All these factors do make a human vulnerable and if a threat arises on family, it arises on you or if you do love someone and they are hurt then you are hurt too. These are natural sentiments of humans, So shall we not live our life to the fullest and always in the fear of being exploited by the bad people who intend to ruin your life and exploit your emotions to exploit you? No, firstly don't think anyone can exploit you if you know yourself better than him.

BE YOURSELF

You know yourself, better than anyone else. If you are into starting a business all on yourself, start investing now and be a businessman, If you are into coding, play with all sorts of languages and be a programmer. No one can decide your destiny, except yourself. Just grind on it and be in your best form. Do not overreact in front of the manipulators around you, let your trust be gained by someone only on the action of the person, words are often manipulative. Think as you speak, as if you are confident about what you are doing and be proud about it. Do not let them know that you do have limits.

CHOICES AND COMPULSION

Again, your choices do matter whether you have to trust anybody with something or not. I don't trust anybody to the fullest except myself because I know that I am not forced to trust anybody as I do trust myself which is the best course of action for me. But, in the end, everyone has his own way of looking at and shaping things for himself and he should be confident about everything he is doing whether it is for his own good or others.

Many people don't understand that they have a choice at the time they are being straight-up manipulated by the other people but they think they don't have a choice other than to accept the fact that they have to trust him. Remember, you always do have a choice but you have to make it at the right moment and all by yourself, not with any peer pressure.

THE REGRET

It is sure to happen that when you make a wrong choice and the bad thing already happens before you know it then the feeling of regret does occur, but do not let that regret take over you entirely as it can make the situation even worse than you think. If one time you do get manipulated into doing something wrong by someone or you got exploited by someone and you were being forced to give the thing that the manipulator wants then do not let the feeling of regret take over you and your powerful mind. Guilt is the thing that makes other humans make more mistakes, instead of guilt, develop discipline in doing things, a habit of being yourself, and a feeling that makes you feel alive. This is the thing that will buy you an upper hand in the world.

THE FUTURE

At last, you are the controller of your own life and things can turn in your favor if instead of being manipulated, you yourself are the manipulator for the manipulators. Do not be the one with a vulnerability, after being yourself, you are the vulnerability yourself.

BOOKS AND PLAYLISTS 

Book and Playlists which I seemed to like - 

The 48 Laws Of Power:

The 48 Laws Of Power is a great book related to power which all of us desire including the self-respect we seek, I highly recommend reading it.

You can read it by just listening to it on audiobook platforms like audible, it is available

How to Be a Strategic Warrior :

Being a strategic warrior requires critical decision-making and sheer determination to do the thing even if it costs you some big amount, you should be ready to risk it all.

A warrior should also know when the time is not right and he should be self-aware and self-conscious about his survival in his world.

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